Moving forward: Family
Text: Genesis 2:20-25,Proverbs 18:22.
The first relationship God made for mankind was the family relationship.
Adam and eve were created to start a family that will have dominion and multiply through their seeds.
Definitely for you to progress this year 2017,it is the will of God for you to commence and sustain your journey towards marital fulfillment.
God is not happy when his children experience failed marriages,he emphasises this in his word; malachi 2:16,Matthew 5:31-32.
When God is absent in the choosing of a life partner then he might not forcefully get involved when the storms of marriage starts.
Moving forward for the year for some people is to get settled maritally and obtain more Favour from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22.
Building a family with godly seeds is the will of God and he derives pleasure seeing us enjoy our marriages.
There is another set of people the Lord wants to reach,these people are those divorced or separated.
Divorce and separation are two sicknesses of a faulty marriage and it always becomes a setback for the partners involved.
In true terms whenever you have a partner who is irreconcilable,then even the reconciling partner is handicapped.
I pray for anyone having setbacks in their marriages that the Lord will give you solutions to your broken marriages in Jesus name,amen.
Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 7,gives us useful instruction for us to get married,also avoiding fornication,verse 1-2
He addressed the issue of denying your partner sex and attention in verse 3-4. Now this is one mistake many couples make especially wives or pastor husbands, they deny their spouse sex all in the name of spirituality and fasting,remember you are ignorant allowing the devil inbetween you and your spouse and God frowns at it, Verse 5.
It is admonished that couples agree on sex fasting before commencing on prayer fasting. Amos 3:3.
Apostle Paul talked about widows remarrying and singles marrying if they cannot hold their body ,better to marry than burn with passion,verse 8-9.
This part of the letter of Paul to the Corinthians in verse 10-11,Paul was against a wife leaving her husband.
In the event of any divorce or separation,Paul admonished that she should remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband.
As a Christian,never compare your marriage to other marriages around you because it is not all that glitters that is gold.
Sometimes its easy to castigate people for separation or divorce of their spouses,we might actually do the same if we were in their shoes. I pray for someone reading this post that God will heal and sustain your marriage.in Jesus name.amen
In the marital vows of Christians,it is for better for worse,sickness or health,in riches or poverty till death separates the couples. The same church that gives this vow sometimes do not do enough to broker peace in stormy marriages.
The manual for peace in marriages is given in the scriptures and hear this,you will give account of how you take care and nurtured your family.
Any couple that fails to resolve marriages in earth will not resolve it in heaven.
Moving forward in the family setting is a personal journey and it takes commitment and sacrifices. I pray that you will not endure your marriage but enjoy it.
If you can be happy on your wedding day,nothing should stop you from being happy all the days of your marriage.
Even in the 1 Corinthians 7, We read about unbelieving spouses should not be left alone because the believing partner sanctifies the unbelieving one. You don’t know if you will win the unbelieving soul over to the Lord.
We shall move forward with the grace of God,When your family is moving forward then you are moving forward too and your work will be smooth without worries.
Remain blessed.
Jesus is Lord and Saviour
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Miracle marriages for the beloved
Miracle marriages for the beloved
The Lord instituted marriage from the beginning and he wants his children to procreate on this basis to have a healthy family and upbringing for their children.
Every culture respects marriage and esteem it of great value in developing and maintaining a society.
In 2017,I am so sure it shall usher many surprise engagements and marriages because many barriers will be broken and destiny molded towards the family line,in Jesus name. Amen.
My prayer for someone reading this message is that the angels of God shall not rest over your marital concerns to get a life partner is settled before the end of the year,in Jesus name,Amen.
Both sexes,male and female have desires for marriage and have limitations for not been able to get married.
Men look at financial status and independence in order to settle down but what is most important is a virtuous woman. Proverbs 31 gives us a deep insight into the characteristics of a woman of many virtues.
Ladies I want you to look at this verse and ensure that you are marriage-able for the best suitor or the divinely appointed man.
Marriage is not about age, class,sex, status, ring but responsibility, love, selflessness,forgiveness and maturity.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage and a good marriage is the responsibility of two people a faithful wife and a faithful husband.
Remove the fear of God and unconditional love from a marriage and you get a hell-of-a-marriage.
My prayer is that you shall not endure your marriage but enjoy it, so if you don’t want to endure but enjoy your marriage; these are some precautions to take note of:
1. Don’t choose because of sex,money,attention or any mouth watering promises,men are sweet talkers when they need your attention.
2. Let your spiritual insight do your choosing like praying and seeking the face of the Lord, the lord sees what you can never see.
3. Don’t marry a man because you are already pregnant for him,marry because you want him to be responsible for your baby. Say no to sex before marriage.
4. Never marry a lazy and non-chalant man because he wont change after you marry him,you might end up becoming the breadwinner after marriage,what makes it bad is that it could cause disrespect and bad image for your children.
5. Never marry a man who does not support your dreams,any man who does not support your dream and desires for progress will be your first enemy to becoming successful.
6.never keep secrets from your spouse,such as medical conditions and child before marriage,it hurts and can cause a broken marriage when discovered.it will look like a betrayal.
7. Don’t test your sexual appetite before confirming your spouse,when you marry based on sexual experience,in case of a medical setback the marriage will crumble.
8. Even when you have prayed about your spouse, don’t doubt what God tells you about your spouse.
9. Never confirm your marital partner from a prophet or pastor,get the confirmation yourself from God,so any other external confirmation is just an addition. They will not be able to help you when the storms of marriage rises. Am not saying that God cannot use his prophets to warn you.
10. Never marry an abuser,if he beats you and abuses you before marriage,he will kill you after marriage if you are not careful.
11. Never allow your family force you into marriage,marry because you are ready and willing to spend the rest of your life with your soul-mate. Walk with the pace of your man,advice and never dictate for him above all don’t be a slave in your own home.
12. It is advisable to teach each other your type of person,see how your partner respond to anger,don’t say anything to whoever you love when you are angry,not everybody is matured enough to forgive and forget.
13. Always make sacrifice for your spouse and children,especially to the women,don’t compare your relationship or marriage with others.
14. After marriage your best friend should be your spouse,settle quarrels internally,its bad if your pastors,mum and dad always have to settle issues for you.
15. Don’t stop praying even after marriage,life has just started after marriage and you need to stay connected to God to help you through it safely.
16. Never marry a spouse who does not appreciate you,appreciation goes a long way in marriage for both partners.
17. Never share your relationship gist and issues with your friends,external parties because you don’t know who truly loves your happiness.
18. Learn to always say “I AM SORRY” whenever you hurt your spouse and never recall what they did after your partner apologises to you.
19. Make sure you never take the love of your partner for granted,when they stop loving you,you will regret all your actions.
20. Hatred and Jealousy is real in relationships but what is the backbone of every relationship is trust and effective mutual communication.
21. Marriage is all about making sacrifices,don’t be selfish towards your spouse and children,selfishness weakens a relationship.
22. Marry someone of your own religion,so you don’t have children with distorted spiritual beliefs and faith. Just to be safe.
23. Be a life partner and not a sex partner,be valuable and irreplaceably useful in your relationship and marriage.
My prayer is that you shall receive grace to marry a blessing of a partner to compliment you,in Jesus name,amen.
There is no Mr. Right or mrs. Right,what we have is Mr. and Mrs. Who chooses to be right for their soul mate.
Both the male and female always have a role to play in the betterment of their partners. When you invest in the life and development of your partner you get to reap it in the future.
No man forgets a good woman who is loving and accommodating,they will always regret their action at old age.
No one desires to have a broken marriage but it is what we sow in to the relationship that we reap. Divorce is not the solution,forgiveness is.
A healthy relationship is a responsibility of the consent and effort of the man and woman in the relationship,one partner is not strong enough to make a relationship healthy. Amos 3:3
Get to the root of the matter,spiritual actions are necessary on marital issues too.
God is highly interested in your marriage,involve him before entering marriage so that he can guide you and sustain you in your marriage.
Jesus is Lord and Saviour
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Masturbation and sex-toys: the christians compromising stand
Masturbation and sex-toys: the christians compromising stand Text:1 corinthians 3:17; 1 timothy1:9, revelation 21:27
Very interesting topic that does not relate to adults alone but to the adolescent and children of this generation.
Masturbation and sex-toys have been made alternative ways of satisfying the urge for pleasures of sex. The medical field has done alot to mislead and confuse people on this term and this has made christians compromise their stands.
We leave in a society where people prefer to satisfy their selfish sexual lust in masturbation and sex-toys than go into marriage.
I have heard where doctors advised people to masturbate for medical reasons best known to them.
There is a need for a rethink because we are emotional beings living in a body that has emotional desires and needs.
I have heard of cases where sex-toys have led to the death of many because of mechanical faults or uncontrolled addiction.
One of the basic need for the flesh(body) is food and sex and when they are abused they tend to drive a person wild and offensive to the Lord.
The world have turned offensive public sexual arousal to a way of life where people are made to pass through sexual machines publicly; we all laugh and joke about it and no one talks about it.
I have seen people suggest sex-toys to friends to satisfy their sexual urges,this is a wrong counsel and it would lead to either addiction or damaged genitals.
There is a rise in leaked videos of sexual encounters and the youths are spearheading this evil practice,these causing sexual arousal that leads to masturbation and sexual immorality.
The bible was not joking when it says in 1 john 2:15-17 that love not the world,neither the things of the world,if you love the world the love of the Father is not in you;the lust of the flesh,lust of the eyes and the pride of life which are in the world are not of God. Ultimately the world and the lust will pass away one day. Masturbation is the satisfying of oneself pleasure alone with or without the use of sexual stimulating inducement.
Sex-toys is one of the ways the devil deceives people to indulge in masturbation and selfish pleasures.
If you are born-again and you indulge in masturbation and the use of sex-toys then you are ungodly and will not see God.
I read on the news a particular US company called abyss creations who is creating sex dolls to be launched in the year 2017 at an exorbitant price,it is an abomination to have sex with non-living objects or the dead,these are all traps to deceive the elect and mislead the general populace. I will classify such people as whoremongers according to 1 timothy 1:10.
Our body is the temple of God and God will destroy anyone who abuses the temple of God(our bodies).1 corinth 6:19
Romans 6:12 admonishes us not to let sin reign in our mortal body so that we won’t obey its lust. therefore when sin reigns in our mortal body then every of its lust will be difficult to reject because it is under bondage to sin.
The worst kind of lust that is very difficult to overcome is the sexual lust. The body does not recognise covenant, promise, wedding ring,because all it want is its needs satisfied,that is why regret follows after such immoral act is done for those with living or unseared conscience.
The only altar that God allows us to explore our sexual appetite is in marriage,any other altar like fornication,adultery and masturbation is condemned.1 corinth 6:13,18,1 corinthians 3:16-17.
1 corinthians 7 gives us deep insight by apostle paul on sexual matters,marriage and what is expected of a christian on sexuality. Please note “It is better to marry than burn.”
Sexual herbs or drugs are not sinful but depends on how it is used and applied into your sexual needs.
Most body part enlargement like the male organs and women body parts are borne out of lustful desires and God is angry against such,this is where the medical field is causing confusion among the believers.
Actually in the real sense,God wants you to be contented with what your spouse looks like and be satisfied with it and also don’t push your spouse into sin and condemnation because of your sexual lusts and desires.
The only way to overcome sexual lust and abnormalities like masturbation, pornography,sexual toys is when you renew your mind and walk in the Spirit;there is little human efforts can do.
We live in an age where sexual content is on the rise among adults and children alike in movies,music audio and videos,Tv commercials, pornography is on the rise and people watch it towards their own destruction.
I repeat,you cannot engage in masturbation,sex-toys and pornography in or outside marriage and not see the destruction and judgment of God.
It is a serious matter because I once watched a renowned popular man of God say on a broadcast that Masturbation is not a Sin. Ah Ah flee from such ministers and repent today before it is too late. It is possible to overcome uncontrolled sexual urges,so don’t be discouraged.
Demons and evil spirits do enhance these devilish activities and lots of money and research has gone into funding these end-time whoremongering agenda.
You need the help of Jesus and ask the Holy spirit to help you to live holy and righteous life with your body,there is no other way that works like this and you need to remember it will take time and lots of efforts to overcome sexual abnormalities.
The fact that you have read this message means you have no excuse before God and you cannot deny the truth.
I did not write this message to condemn you but to show you that Jesus wants you free and saved because he saved me from sexual lust stronghold and I am a living testimony. God is greater than our hearts if our heart condemns us; 1 john 3:20.
Many have been mislead and are in the fires of hell due to this uncontrolled sexual lust.
Don’t let anyone deceive you,sexual purity will take you to heaven because God lives in your body and your body is his temple.
Your pastor might not tell you the truth because he does not want to hurt you or offend you,its better you are offended here on earth and make heaven than not being offended by the truth and going to hell-fire for all eternity.
Jesus did not come to condemn the World,but that through him the world(you and me) might be saved. John 3:17 Jesus is Lord and Saviour
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How to settle my marital life with God {ladies}
How to settle my marital life with God {ladies}
Text: genesis 2:21-25, Matthew 1:18-20, 24, Hosea 4:6
The spirit instructed me to open messages on this topic so important to us now so you won’t hold God responsible for your situation after 2014 is over.
Signs you should check in your life to know what is happening concerning your marital destiny.
1. Am I above25years of age as a lady?
2. Do I have suitors or I have boyfriends? Remember they are different.
3. How do the suitors or finance leave /jilt me after proposing marriage and how many times? (after twice there is a problem).
4. Do I frequently have sex in the dream with the same person or different people?
5. Am I into homosexuality or masturbation?
6. Do I have dreams of people forcefully taking my possessions from me?
7. Am I unfaithful in my relationship and do I have multiple sex partners?
8. Do I define my relationship with guys, assumption is ignorance (is it romantic, friendship or courtship).
9. Do I always find myself with the irresponsible and terrible men?
10. Am I carried away by the marriage of friends and family members younger than I am?
11. Have I been pregnant from previous relationship?
12. What is the history behind my family lineage or ancestral history?
13. Have I asked God in prayers and fasting till I got answers?
14. Am I in a relationship with another woman’s husband?
15. How do you treat men who propose to marry you? Good or bad.
16. Have I been misled by my parents/pastors into breaking up relationships due to lack of patience and direction from God?
17. Have I prepared enough for Mr. Right to come?
18. Have I given up to devilish fate that if he comes he comes but I won’t wait for him?
19. Is there any curse place on me?
20. Am I sure the time has come to decide to get married to him?
21. Am I living in a house with an unmarried man and do I already have children for him?
22. is my fiancee abusive?
23. Are you sick or have a medical problem?
24. Am I spiritually prepared to face the spiritual battles of marriage?
25. Am I matured and ready to deal with the issues of marriage?
26. Am I patient enough to tolerate the excesses of a man for the rest of my life?
27. Will I be able to forgive my husband unconditionally if he hurts me?
28. Am I financially prepared for supporting my husband to be in taking care of the needs of my home?
29. Am i prepared to be able to protect my new home and not run away whenever a storm arrives?
30. Finally can I be patient with God in prayers to settle me martially?
These may not be all the questions one need to ask but they are the basic questions and we need to look at our lives as a lady because there is a reason or force behind everything that happens to us good or bad.
From divine insight, you can settle your marital life either the earthly/worldly way or the divine way.
The earthly/worldly way can fail or let’s say has high tendency to fail but the divine way hardly fails and when it falls it can be easily repaired by God.
God seems to recognize more with the divine way of settling marital lives.
The earthly/worldly way of settling your marital life is when you use worldly methods to select your future or intending husband using criteria like sex, money, fame, lust and the rest.
The worldly/earthly method of settling your marital life is mostly based on what you can see largely than what you can’t see.
The worldly/earthly method is easily frustrated when faced with trials and persecutions of marriages.
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Why put away?
Why put away?
Break it down..Why divorce or live separated?
Mark 10:1-12..read up
Many don’t want to believe that the five major spirits behind divorce are lying, covetousness, anger, pride and unforgiveness.
When a man or a wife is proud because he is higher than the other partner. it will have adverse effects on the spouse.
Mostly men are more successful than their wives. So make sure you treat her with respect, don’t use her academically position or position at work to insult her even when you are angry.
When you are comparing your wife to your secretary at work who is more beautiful and smarter than your wife. it is not being a man but covetousness and adultery before God. After marriage you must love your partner the way he or she is, even if they change after marriage in body size or health-wise. Covetousness in marriage when you sleep around with people of the opposite sex when you have a partner bound by covenant. no adulterer will enter heaven.
Anger is one of the spirits the devil is using to destroy married men, you turn your wife into a punching bag. God made you her knight and not her bully. Even if she is rude with you there are many ways to correct her with love than beating her.
If you feel you can beat your wife, how will you feel if your son-in-law beats your daughter? Men show some conscience.
Anger is what makes people say the hidden negative observations of a neighbour without remorse. A word spoken out of anger is like an egg that when it is broken cannot be put together again.
Unforgiveness is when you don’t forgive your spouse when he has offended you..there is no offence your spouse can commit against you that you can’t forgive because God forgives you of all your sins and iniquities so do the same to him or her.
Many will be condemned by putting asunder peoples marriage. Mark 10:9
If you know a man or a woman is married and you interfere, either as the mother-in-law or mother, father or father-in-law you are seen as an enemy before God.
Even when you marry him as a second wife or third wife. God made husband and wife one flesh after marriage.
Don’t marry a divorcee because you will be guilty of adultery before God.
Don’t rush into marriage because the heart of man is desperately wicked from the beginning. You can’t be sure of any person. Wrong selection because of covetousness or love for the things of the world makes people make the wrong choices in partners, in covenant of marriage; ignorance is not permitted as a reason to back out.
It is worse to marry because of riches or sex or beauty because they fade away, only love cannot fade away.
Women remember the future, safety and dignity of your children before taking to divorce or promiscuous living.
God is the ultimate and non-partial judge in marriage.
Jesus is lord
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Restitution: The unpreached sermon 070614 (part 2)
Restitution: The unpreached sermon 070614 (part 2)
Text: Ezekiel 33:14-16,luke 19:1-10
Luke 19:1-10,we see that zacchaeus restituted his wealth because he knew he had taken from the poor by false accusation, despite the fact he got salvation that day.
The fact that he met Christ and got salvation did not stop him from making restitution.
Anyone who fails to let go or forgive a person who comes to make genuine restitution will be answerable to God Almighty.
Some people might not move forward until they restitute all they have done wrongly.
Prayer: Father Lord Jesus, remind me of the restitutions I must make and help me to do them immediately. In Jesus Name..Amen
Holy Spirit of God will give remembrance.
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Restitution: The unpreached sermon 310514 (part 1)
Restitution: The unpreached sermon 310514 (part 1)
Text: Ezekiel 33:14-16,luke 19:1-10
Many people avoid this instruction called “RESTITUTION” restitution in Christianity means confessing or giving back what was wrongly acquired or asking for forgiveness on evils committed towards a person.
Even after confessing your sins before God, if you are pressed in your spirit or you remember you have wronged an individual in the past, or your wrongly took someone’s possessions, you have to restore it back and ask for forgiveness.
In restitution when you can’t afford to pay back then confession to the victim settles it too.
Many will go to hell fire because they failed to restitute their wrong doings/past evil deeds towards another person.
Many people’s progress in life lies in making Restitution. God spoke concerning restitution to Ezekiel in chapter 33 verse 14-16
Restitution has a lot to do with making peace and giving back what was taking wrongly so that there will be no condemnation before God for an individual.
Many will have to restitute bad actions you maltreated someone when you were in the world now you are in Christ you have to go back and apologize to the person you hurt back then if he is alive and locate-able.
Many will restitute in terms of relationship, you promised a lady marriage, you slept with her, she made abortions for you, gave you her all, yet you dumped her for another woman, you must go back to apologize to her and make peace with her again.
Prayer: Father Lord Jesus, remind me of the restitutions I must make and help me to do them immediately. In Jesus Name..Amen
Holy Spirit of God will give remembrance.
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Effeminate spirit 190714
Effeminate spirit 190714
Text: 1Corinthians 6:9, genesis 19, 2 timothy 3:1-7,13
Effeminate spirit is a ravaging spirit that is misleading and destroying mankind today.
The effeminate spirit is when humans behave or transgender to the opposite gender or sex.
Homosexuality and transgender is the top stories today and both young and old are practicing it and are in bondage to this spirit.
From the scriptures given in the text above 1 Corinthians 6:9,it says that the fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, effeminate, abusers of themselves with mankind will not inherit the kingdom of God, so brethren don’t be deceived.
The ravaging spirit of Effeminate is what is also making men change to women and women changing to men through surgeries and lifestyle.
From the book of genesis we read in verse 19, we see an example of the spirit of effeminate and sexual immorality at work. The people of Sodom and Gomorrah wanted to have sexual relationship with the two men (angels) who came to visit Lot’s family with the intention of saving them from destruction of the city.
It was recorded that both the young and old were involved in this abominable act of Sodom and Gomorrah.
God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of these evil acts and am sorry to say that people of this generation are doing worse than what Sodom and Gomorrah did.
If you are a man, behave like a man and if you are a woman behave like a woman and this goes for marriage.
The god the gay and lesbian pastors seems to preach is not the same God that I know and serve, beware because the wrath of God cannot be endured because it destroys completely.
Prayer:
1. Father, please deliver me from the spirit of effeminateness and Homosexuality, save my soul today from destruction, In Jesus Name..Amen
2. Lord Jesus I want you to make me who you created me to be and not what the devils wants me to think about who am I.
3. Father any way I have been a slave to the spirit of effeminacy and homosexuality. Please deliver me with your mighty hands in Jesus Name..Amen
4. Father any of my glory, gift, blessings I have lost in this act, please restore back to me divinely..In Jesus Name..Amen
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Marriage and adultery 2
Marriage and adultery 2
Text: 1 Corinthians 7:1-16,Hebrews 13:4,1 Corinthians 13:1-13,mark 10:6-9
many misinterpret Matthew 5:32 as an excuse to commit adultery, what it is saying is that any married person cannot commit fornication, so if you have not married a woman and she is living with you, then you are committing fornication and you still have an opportunity when you get to your senses to put her away because she is not your legally married wife. So if you marry a person who is your legal partner and both families are witnesses to your union there is no room for divorce and anyone who marries one who is divorced commits adultery.
Many don’t physically put away their first love but when you marry a second wife, you are basically committing adultery with the second wife because it is only two people God joins together, God does not join more than two people that’s why man was created man and wife from the beginning.
From 1 Corinthians 7:1-16,we see that the main reason for marriage aside procreation is to avoid fornication. It is greed that gives birth to marrying more than one wife or jumping from husband to husband.
Adultery is a great sin before God and it is the abuse of the body before God, before you, before your spouse.
Adultery is not an escape route or an excuse to divorce your partner; you have to keep forgiving till the partner is free from the bondage.
Temporary separation can be taken for those physically abused by their spouses but intercession must be made on behalf of the other partner before God and reconciliation efforts must be made between families involved while both partners don’t remarry during separation.
In case of adultery, patience and forgiveness is what you need to overcome the pain of this betrayal and it pays in the future.
After marriage the only person permitted to make love to you is your spouse whether he is good in it or bad in it, always available or distant from you.
It is foolishness to see many men commit adultery but say they will kill their wives if they are caught in it.it is just selfishness and ignorance.
Many partners lead their spouses to adultery by using sex as a weapon of revenging hurt done to them or a way to pay back..or not doing what their partner loves, you are only signing the contract of destroying your home.
Another reason for adultery is that many spouses don’t kill their old loveflames..You still call your ex to know how they are doing..you even pay visits..haaaa you use the excuse of loneliness to trap yourself.
Another reason for adultery in marriages is selfishness..When you are selfish as a man or woman to yourself..there is always someone who is out there to give your spouse for free..and that is the beginning of breaking-up of your marriage.
The truth is that sexual discipline is key to avoiding adultery in all cases..there are kings with one wife, there are rich men with one wife, there are poor men with one wife..so adultery has nothing to do with your status in the society.
Jesus Christ is the only person who can free you from the yoke of adultery..so invite him into your home today and you will see the change.
If you have any child from adultery or you are still practicing adultery and you decide to keep it from your spouse..that could lead you to hellfire to face eternal destruction.
So for those who are sexually hyperactive, marriage is not your ultimate cure to fornication but sexual discipline.
I am not here to condemn anyone but just to warn such a person not to end up an enemy of God.
Actually drinking at the beer parlour and clubbing and social gathering centres is a strong attractive factor to cause adultery in marriage.
Men listen to this: because your wife cannot get pregnant is not a license to marry a new wife or have secret concubines..the same goes to women
Many ministers of God have housewife(legal wife) then mission wife(women they meet when they are transferred or while on missionary journeys, then church wife(women in the church like choir, ushering etc)..hmmmm remember God is not a respecter of persons acts 10:34 and he will judge and destroy all adulterers in Hell Hebrews 13:4,1 Corinthians 6:9-10,malachi 3:5,leviticus 20:10
God has actually condemned adultery from the old testament time..so it is not changing..
I will stop here till when I am inspired to talk about “choosing a life partner” and “marriage starts from just a seed”.
God bless us all and make us obedient to his word and also amend our ways..
May God help us to keep our marriages, In Jesus Name..Amen
Oyewole Ademola Ojo
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Marriage and adultery part 1
Marriage and adultery part 1
Text:1 Corinthians 13:1-13,mark 10:6-9,Hebrews 13:4
The institution of marriage is the first institution God laid down and the commandment and covenant of marriage should not be broken for any reason. Genesis 2:18-25,
Marriage should be based on love and not lust the characteristic of any successful marriage is found in 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
The reason why many couples have broken relationship is because true love is missing as the marriage goes on and many things are taken for granted.
If God wanted to say that two wives was good for a man (Adam) he would have created two (eves) to be wife for Adam. From the beginning of marriage it has always been one man, one wife.
Am sure many of you men today will not tell a woman that after I marry you, I will marry another woman in addition and I know no virtuous woman will want to marry a man who will still want to have more wives after her.
There is no excuse for adultery before God and the covenant made on the wedding day has been signed in heaven because God was present, the man,the woman,both families witnesses and those who came to eat and drink. So before you can break your marital vow or divorce your spouse you bring back everyone present on your wedding day and reverse your vow which is impossible.
For those who are second wives or concubines, same as married to a divorcee. Remember you came in between two people and you are trying to put them asunder you are likely to be seen as a threat to them by God. Mark 10:6-9
There is a serious consequence on adultery, David suffered it even to his unborn children 2 Samuel 11.
God does not tolerate adultery in any form and will punish those who have extramarital affairs and those who will break their marital vow.
In marriage, you must try to make sure that you fuel and rekindle your love daily and create time for your spouse and children and intercede for them in prayers.
Whenever you think someone wants to come in between you and your partner do all you can (not violence) to fight for your spouse.
God is the ultimate judge and those who practice sexual sin; he will rightly judge and destroy in eternal flames of destruction.
Ministers of God today are not even showing good examples regarding marriage so you can look up to them because you don’t have an excuse since you have the bible and you have heard the truth either you believe or not.
The only option you have in marriage concerning adultery is forgiveness and forgetting if you leave your partner on grounds of adultery or any other reason even when they are guilty, then God himself will not forgive you your sins too, plain and simple..You have to endure till God intervenes or you live apart and stay unmarried.
Note this as the door of fornication closes on your wedding day, the very second you are joined together under witness as husband and wife the door of adultery opens.
May God help us to keep our marriages, In Jesus Name.Amen
Oyewole Ademola Ojo
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Marriage
Marriage
God is a faithful God and he has given rules for us regarding marriage..God is not an author of confusion in marriage..why should you risk earthly pleasures for eternity..its not worth it..this life and marriage is like a honour God gave to us all "Hebrews 13:4 says that marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge"..God gave you your body and the feelings for love and sex and he created an institution to practice what he has given you. its a choice to get married and not to be married, that's what couples will say "I do" at the altar..if you are married and you are sleeping with anybody apart from your wife or husband, God himself will judge you and condemn you to hell..he hates cheating or putting away(divorce) and no two wives or concubines..if you are a whoremonger, prostitute or adulterer remember the reward for people like that is hell..there is nothing that can happen in a family that God cannot resolve so if you have issues in your marriage, take it to God in prayers and he will fix it..if you are unmarried and you are sleeping with someone not married to you then you are a whoremonger and God will judge you because your body is the temple of the holy Spirit..Please amend your ways because the time is too short and Jesus is coming at any time..Marriage matters to God (homosexuals do not even fit into this because it is an express road to hell) Jesus is Lord and Saviour Oyewole Ademola Ojo Whatsapp: New:+2348098233605, Mobile:+2348059767075,+2348065175173 BB pin: 29692291 Facebook: Strongbone Ademola Woleojo2000@yahoo.com Woleojo2000@gmail.com Ibadan, Oyo State. Nigeria.
Sexual impurity
Sexual impurity
James 4:4 ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God..
In the above passage we need to ask who is an adulterer or adulteress..an adulterer or adulteress is someone who commits adultery or fornication.
Adultery is extramarital sex that willfully or maliciously interferes with marriage relations..Jesus Christ also refined adultery that it could be performed in the heart without even carrying out the action Matthew 5:28 says verily I say unto you, that whosoever looketh at a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
You can even commit adultery or fornication with pornographic materials..if you decide to be friend with the world through canal sexual attitudes or ignorance you are an enemy with God.
If you say you are a child of God you must shun naked dressing, attachments, earrings, trousers for women, tattoo, rings, extravagant lifestyle because you must be different from the people of the world in all aspect.
2corinthians 5:9-11, ephesians 5:6-7
If you sleep or move around with girlfriends and concubines while married you are an enemy of God and you are going to hell..Repent now while you have the opportunity.
This warning is not only for men but also for women..God gave you your body to glorify Him and also to satisfy your partner (opposite sex not same sex)
It is not by force to enter heaven but by choice and there is no excuse for anyone who has heard the word.
Other references 1 Corinthians 6:9-10,
Jesus is Lord and Saviour Oyewole Ademola Ojo Whatsapp: New:+2348098233605, Mobile:+2348059767075,+2348065175173 BB pin: 29692291 Facebook: Strongbone Ademola Woleojo2000@yahoo.com Woleojo2000@gmail.com Ibadan, Oyo State. Nigeria.
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